- 16 November 2016
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Do You Still Love Your Ex? What Should You Do?
When you have been in a relationship for awhile, whether dating or married, and for some reason it falls apart, it is natural to have the feeling that you still love your ex. I’m sure there was a lot of things you both shared in the time you were together and the love you felt is not so easily forgotten. What you need to figure out at this point is whether you want to get back together or are you just hanging on to old feelings? Read More: Message Tips For Online Dating.
If you feel like you still love your ex, it’s not necessarily a bad thing because it means that you both loved each other at some time. The love you shared cannot be so easily dismissed. There may be lots of good memories that still linger and a bond that you both share. The one thing you need to remember is that just because you feel that you still love your ex, it doesn’t mean that you should get back together. You need to step back and take a look at the relationship and really think about why you broke up and if you are really meant to get back together.
The love you are feeling for your ex may just be because you still respect them and cherish what you had. It doesn’t necessarily mean that you are “in love” with them. Wait to see what happens. You may just slowly drift apart, especially if either of you meets someone new or you could just stay good friends, which is very special in it’s own way. Read More: How to really tell if someone likes you
If, on the other hand, you are still genuinely in love with your ex and want to try to get back together, then it will take a bit of work. You will need to find out if your partner feels the same way. It’s important that you not push things in one direction or the other. Let the process flow naturally and if it was meant to be, you will come together. It has to be a mutual feeling between you both.
You have to remember that there was still something that tore the two of you apart and that it needs to be reconciled for the relationship to take on a fresh start. Usually you will need some kind of help, be it in the form of a marriage or relationship counselor or a good friend to talk to. You will need to build upon your relationship and make it stronger than before. Read More: Apologizing Does Not Always Mean That You Are Wrong
So if you are finding that you still love your ex, then the best advice is to let things take a natural course and see what happens. Get professional help to get it back on track and soon you may be saying that you are “in love” with your ex again. As with any relationship, there is bound to be conflict. Learning to get through the bad times is part of maturity.
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